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Things You Probably Should Not Worry About

When you analyse what takes up your brain space you will discover that very often the stuff that takes up most of valuable time is things that have very little or absolutely no bearing on you as an individual. Here is some of the most common ones Other people’s expectations for your life Just in case you have lost perspective, this is your life! You should listen to ideas and thoughts which ultimately puts you in a position to make…

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Saying No, Yes.. Its ok to say No!

Do you have trouble saying No? Especially in the work environment. Many keep saying yes to everything that is thrown their way. In the work environment, it becomes a habit to having things thrown your way if you don’t learn how to say no. Its really hard for me cause i take my gig very seriously and normally will do what is required to get things done but im slowly learning that NO is very important , for my own…

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Note To Self 12

Watch the knife I have the tendency of trying to help people. Friends and family especially, nothing gives me more joy than to see people doing well for themselves. If i have a opportunity to help out within my capacity, i will without even blinking. Now in doing that sometimes you leave your self vulnerable to un-called for attacks. Now, don’t get me wrong.. I do not except anything in return, no favors etc.. But hey, its ones prerogative and…

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Note To Self 9

Racism   Racism is a age of trick in the books of politicians or those who want to gain support of the masses. One would think that this day in age, that would be a tiny problem that cant be used to benefit but reality is not everyone has the kind of access to information as the urban folks do hence leaving a gap to be exploited. We hear about rants by educationist who are supposed to teach students how…

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Note To Self 8

Respect   We easily take this value for granted. How many times have you cursed a Bangladeshi? or a Indonesian? How many times have you heard your boss comparing you to a admin clerk when he/she is not happy with your work?  Not good! I make the mistake all the time (much less now) by disrespecting people. Everyone is in a particular place for a reason. You cant insult the guy building houses, if he doesnt are you going too?…

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